Opinions? No thanks I have my own...

Whew! Sorry I haven’t written in a while! But it has been crazy with work and wedding planning and the holidays! I was recently on spring break and was able to get a ton of things done for the wedding! But now I am less than four months away and really starting to panic. Soooo I thought what better way to calm down but to post about something every bride deals with, pushy people’s opinions. I don't care who you are, you definitely have someone trying to telling you how to plan/throw YOUR wedding. It could be your mother or worse future mother-in-laws (I have 2 of them!!!) other relatives, wedding planner, friends, or even just some random person who heard you are getting married. Here is my next recommendation, whenever someone says something that makes you cringe inside, simply say, "thanks for the idea, I will look into that". Now if they keep persisting, you will have to be more forceful, "sorry no way that's happening" might be a little much but "that is really not what I have planned for my wedding day" is perfectly acceptable and will hopefully after a while help your opinionated friends or relatives will get the idea and leave you alone, for the most part. I have had people comment on who I invited to the wedding. Guess what? That was my decision and I can invite who I want. Remember it’s your day! If you don’t stand up for yourself, you may regret it in the future.